Commitment Builds a Foundation of the Relationship

One of the foundations of relationship is no other than but commitment. When you are building a strong and a healthy relationship, you have to make it a point that you are going to give yourself into the relationship. Giving oneself to a relationship is never easy. It requires dedication and fulfillment of promises.

If you are enjoying the single life, you won't take risk of committing yourself in a relationship. When you are not ready for this kind of engagement, or let's say you have fear of committing yourself to someone for the rest of life, don’t dare to be in a relationship for it will create a lot of trouble. It is a total headache. Please be careful with your decision.

Why am I saying this? It is simply because it is not only you who will suffer in case you will not take seriously the relationship that you are going to build. Most especially if you entrust yourself to someone who has obligations or someone who is already married.

If you want to have a happy family, make it sure that you are going to prepare for this. Take seriously the relationship that you are trying to build. Your future children will suffer also in case you make a mistake.

If you want to marry the wo/man you love, make it sure that you can visualize the future that you can live with this wo/man for the rest of your life. If you cannot see yourself with this wo/man in your visualization, make an assessment of the relationship that you are going to have. Maybe what you feel is mere infatuation and not real love. For love is not to be equated with simple physical attraction. If you are just attracted with his/her beauty and perfection, be careful. Besides, you will not entrust yourself to his/her beauty and physical figure. Beauty fades as time passes by. Love the person per se and not his/her physical qualifications.

A relationship which based, however, on weak emotions cannot sustain through unavoidable challenges in life. So, when you give, it is for life.

Opps don’t get me wrong; I am not saying that you have to be a martyr. Entrusting yourself to someone does not necessarily mean being with someone forever, despite the abusive and destructive relationship. Stay away from a relationship encapsulated by never-ending jealousy. There is no cure for a jealous guy/girl who always envious for all the things around.

Take note, I say things not persons, for there are some who are also jealous even with simple hobbies like reading books, watching TV Shows, Internet browsing, mingling with friends, etc. worst if s/he is even envious with your own children. This is very unhealthy, there must be trust with each other and it is another foundation of relationship.

In a relationship, you have to be totally dedicated. To put in an analogy, it is like building a business, wherein you dedicate yourself to business, you invest your time, talents, and treasures. When your business partner cheats on you, or betrays you by dealing to another business which is a competition of yours, your business will not succeed.

The same way in a relationship, you also have responsibility to invest your very own self, your time, talents, treasures, and of course, your emotions. And when your partner cheats on you or s/he finds another love of his/her life or let's say s/he is already married, of course your relationship will not succeed. In a nutshell, all the things that you are doing in your life require a full-pledge dedication, in order to succeed.

You need to cultivate your relationships and commitment You have to entrust yourself wholeheartedly in order to attain a healthy relationship. When your partner simply gives him/herself halfheartedly, don’t expect that your relationship will be healthy and happy. When you exert all your efforts but you are the only one who is giving the 100 percent for the relationship, of course, it won’t succeed. There could be a relationship because you have chosen to stay despite the unhappiness. You are afraid to invest once again and maybe you are tired also to start another relationship, so what can you do? Stay and be unhappy? You can start reconsidering this kind of relationship.

By nature we delve into a relationship because we want to be happy. We have reasons to commit. We want to live in a blissful family relationship. Isn't it? Thus, I tell you my friend, there is no part-time in dealing with a relationship. It is always full time obligation, a 100 percent commitment, to you and only to you.

If you are married wo/man of course it’s a 100 percent giving of yourself to YOUR family. There must be no family extension or let's say second or third family, or else each of you could have your own family extension, to be fair...LOL...:) Will a husband agree if his wife has another man or family? or vice-versa? Well, I guess you know the answer.

But wait, commitment is a two-way process, it is a tandem, that's why, you called your loved one, a partner. It is not only your job alone because both of you must commit 100 percent or else your relationship will fail. So, do you want to have a healthy relationship? And a happy family? Start now, don’t hesitate to commit wholeheartedly for commitment is one of the foundations of a healthy, a happy, and a successful relationship.

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